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What Kind of Man Do You Have - How Men View Love

When it comes to love, women want to talk about it all the time. In fact, more than talk about it, they want to hear it all the time. Most men, on the other hand, do not want to talk about, or even hear about, it. Why is this? What is it that makes men not want to verbalize love?

It seems that most women need to her those magic words, “I love you”. They associate that with the depth and quality of a man’s commitment to a relationship. For many men, they fight love with all their might for a number of reasons. The first reason is that love is something that makes them feel weak and vulnerable to outside attack. This seems to be the predominant fear in the hearts of most males. For other men, there a plethora of other reasons why they fear or avoid love. Men can, in fact, be categorized by how they view love. This is something every woman should know.

To categorize men, you should ask a few fundamental questions. These questions include: how are when it comes to dealing with your feelings? How do you feel about your self as a man? Do you feel secure when you love? Does love seem to be more of a woman thing than a man thing for you? Would you rather spend a lovely evening with the woman you love or spend an evening out with the boys on the town? Do you express your love daily? Do you think love needs to be said or can it be assumed? Is love one of your chief goals in your life or just a way to sweeten the ride? Will you work to keep love in your life? Does love make you feel like you own a woman? Did you love your father? Do you think you are loved by others? Do you feel women deserve love? Do you feel that you deserve love?

Depending on how the man may answer these questions, this will tell you what manner of man you may be in love with. The different types of men are separated in these fundamental categories: The Explorer, the Dreamer, the Control Freak, the Wiseman, and the Lover.

The Explorer is someone who conquers new horizons on a daily basis. This type of men sees love as some sort of ocean to explore, some sort of country to conquer or some sort of mountain to climb. They thrive at the challenge of being the best at this “task” of love. Like achieving any other goal, they strive to be at the top of their game until they get to their destination. The trouble with these types of men, though, is that once they achieve their goal, it doesn’t take long before they lose the excitement of the striving. The goal is achieved, the woman is won, and now they become bored and want to do it again. Of course, it has to be with a different woman because you wouldn’t try to conquer what has already been conquered.

The Dreamer sees love as the epitome of romance. They want poetry and vivid romantic experiences. They may seem like the ideal man to many women, at least at first. But, with the dreamer, when problems arise, they may not be able to deal with them. They may see these problems as a sign that it is not true love. They may be able to quote lots of Shakespeare but they may not be able to talk seriously about relationship issues. They may also think that love is a feeling and that, if the other person feels it too, there is no need to tell their partner they love them. They should just know by all the poetry, etc. And, if things get too bad for the dreamer, they may just disappear from the relationship.

The Control Freak sees love as a realm of control and they are “freaks” about that. They insist on dominating all areas of the relationship. When their wife or girlfriend fulfills their needs by doing what is expected or asked, they relationship is going as it should. They feel empowered as men. But, if she asks to get her needs fulfilled or is insubordinate in any way, this sort of man feels his masculinity threatened and the quality of the love diminishing. He’ll say things like, “I don’t understand. Why don’t you have my dinner cooked? Why don’t you have my clothes prepared?” For men like this, love is all about owning a woman who will do womanly things for his needs. They fear their partner talking about equality and their rights. This, to them, is a sign that their partner doesn’t love them.

The Deep man believes that all things are connected and are one. He believes that he should love all things and all things equally. This sort of man is good to be with as he strives to get along with other people and may have many positive relationships with others. This, unfortunately, includes other women. This sort of man has trouble keeping his love for just one woman. It just seems so selfish. So, while love may be good, it may not be faithful.

The Lover is the man who truly believes in love. He feels good about who he is and secure with his sexuality and his emotions. He can date and love freely and is not afraid to express his feelings. His love extends to all areas of his life, including his career and his relationship. And, because of their willingness and ability to give love, they accept all the love the woman has to give. This reciprocal love is what all women should look for in a man.

As you can see, there are many types of men in the world. If you are dating a man or are thinking of marrying him, you must ask him these important questions and find out what kind of man he is. Once you know, strive to find the Lover. This is the man you really want to date, fall in love with and marry. This marriage will last and bring you happiness and harmony throughout your life.