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Romantic Occasions - Romancing Her
Romance and planning a romantic occasion for her is all about communication.
Whether you inject simple spontaneity into a normal day or evening, a burst of excitement with the heat of erotica, or tantalize her senses to invoke a reaction - allowing her to define the moment it is all “communication”.
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Communicate
It is essential that you and your love set aside quality time each week and just talk - “straight from the heart”. Use such time to learn about her dreams, her hopes, and her desires - expand into her fantasies and inner feelings so that she is your guide for communicating with her.
Remember that “the journey is more important than the destination”. The closer she feels you are communicating on her wavelength and frequency - the more romantic you will become… not by you doing anything differently - but by her responding to her own needs for which you happened to listen and understand from previous “straight from the heart discussions”.
At least once a week you should casually arrange for a simple get together - a quite time alone and this can be anything - from a specially prepared dinner for two, taking in a special event that you both enjoy, public outings - movie, drinks at the local pub, dancing, etc..
At least once a week you should be close to her, special to her - making her special to you. This can only be possible if you both share some common interests. The key isn’t being “common” it is “interest” or rather taking interests and making them “uncommon” and then engineer the occasion as a spontaneous surprise.
An excellent way to make your love feel special “in your own eyes” and for you to be known as a natural romantic!
It is important to realize that “she” can be captivated by rituals - you know; “our song”, our “something” that has special meaning between the two of us…
Creating your own rituals for her to spontaneously share in and adapt to speak volumes of your feelings for her.
With the aid of that quality time and “straight from the heart” talks to learn about her dreams, her hopes, her desires, find those things that you can use to plan from and then explore - together.
Even everyday chores can become elegant rituals that will romance her mind, heart, body, spirit and soul.
Cooking dinner, even house cleaning or walking the dog can be transformed into romantic rituals simply by setting the intention “to connect with each other” and develop change over time “at that time”.
If it’s dinner - explore new cultural tastes - making dinner for two in turn for each other.
If house cleaning - schedule, clean and explore new household decor for celebrating the cleaned room - in turn making the new decor match each others interests.
If it’s walking the dog - explore new, ever expanding circle of parks and trails to share each others company, to talk about each others dreams, yet more importantly to “connect with each other emotionally”.
Creating a ritual is gift of the heart. Often partners wish nothing more than to “please their significant other”.
Communicate, spontaneity, and rituals of change - builds strength in a relationship and romances her making a romantic out of you.
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