The most successful relationships are those that involve emotional attraction.
Although physical attraction is important in many ways, as time goes on, looks fade and unless there are other forms of attraction to nurture the relationship, it will not work. In addition to emotional and physical attraction, intellectual attraction plays a very important role.
Those who are emotionally attracted tend to have stronger relationships. Couples that connect on an emotional level, relate to each other better. Emotional attraction is a deeper form of attraction than physical attraction, as it extends past the times when looks are everything. When you see an older couple in love after 50-60 years of marriage, chances are they are attracted emotionally and intellectually in addition to the youthful physical attractions. In fact, emotional and intellectual attraction can often sustain physical attraction for a lifetime.
You can tell if a couple is emotionally attracted by the way they interact with each other. Emotionally attracted people find it easy to talk for hours and just enjoy being with each other regardless of what they are doing together. Emotionally attracted people care about the feelings and thoughts of the other in a very sincere way. After all is said and done in the realm of physical intimacy, those who are emotionally attracted, hold each other long after the heat of passion has ended. Emotional attraction is that extra dimension of love that makes it last forever.
For many people, attraction depends on a person’s body language, emotions and attitude. Another critical aspect of attraction includes self-confidence and attitude toward various aspects of life and also their view on relationships. Nobody is attracted to anyone who demonstrates really introverted body language. To have a very closed look in your body language discourages people from approaching you. Body Language needs to create a look that you can be approached. It can be the simple difference between smiling or not. Also, negative emotions push people away so it is important to keep an upbeat and positive emotional attitude. A person should shine with an heir of confidence to attract people on emotional and other levels.
A person needs to attract someone using a positive attitude about relationships also. For instance, if a person goes around acting like they will never have a relationship that will work, chances are they will not. It is often just a matter of what a person believes in, that affects what happens to them in their lives. Attitude is so critical to success in many things.