http://www.coopyrite.net/2007/05/03/fantasy-vs-logical-relationship/ Understanding of human relations, attitude, behavior Thu, 28 Aug 2008 15:32:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.5 http://www.coopyrite.net/2007/05/03/fantasy-vs-logical-relationship/#comment-3530 Fri, 17 Aug 2007 22:02:09 +0000 http://www.coopyrite.net/2007/05/03/fantasy-vs-logical-relationship/#comment-3530 I met this guy on line and we hit of great. We exchanged numbers and everything, even though I didn't want to,at first. Because of what happened in the past. We have been talking for about 5 months to be exact, although we have yet to see each other. I sort of give him hints that I want to see him but I made sure I never pushed it. He knew my history and he knew what I wanted in a relationsip and yet, I still didn't tell him everything. And I sent him plenty of pictures, which he really liked. I thought I was doing everything right, until our last conversation I had with him, which ended in, "Okay, sweetheat talk to you later" and usually he'll call or IM me on line. But he has yet to call or IM me and it's been a month. I don't know what I did. I even gave him some space, because I wasn't to sure if we were still talking. When I came back from my trip, I emailed him. I didn't through myself at him or cursed at him or bite his head off and yet, still no responds. When we first started talking he told me "I could call him anytime, I want" and even then I still didn't over do it. But since he hasn't connected me. I don't know if I should call him or just leave him be. I was not banking on him to become my boyfriend, because of past experiences and I knew we were going to fade out sooner or later. But I always thought that I would see him first and then he'll decide if he wanted to continue on communicating. And if he decides to continue communicating after he sees me, then I could truly get to know him as friends and nothing more then just friends. So, what did I do wrong? I met this guy on line and we hit of great. We exchanged numbers and everything, even though I didn’t want to,at first. Because of what happened in the past. We have been talking for about 5 months to be exact, although we have yet to see each other. I sort of give him hints that I want to see him but I made sure I never pushed it. He knew my history and he knew what I wanted in a relationsip and yet, I still didn’t tell him everything. And I sent him plenty of pictures, which he really liked. I thought I was doing everything right, until our last conversation I had with him, which ended in, “Okay, sweetheat talk to you later” and usually he’ll call or IM me on line. But he has yet to call or IM me and it’s been a month. I don’t know what I did. I even gave him some space, because I wasn’t to sure if we were still talking. When I came back from my trip, I emailed him. I didn’t through myself at him or cursed at him or bite his head off and yet, still no responds. When we first started talking he told me “I could call him anytime, I want” and even then I still didn’t over do it. But since he hasn’t connected me. I don’t know if I should call him or just leave him be. I was not banking on him to become my boyfriend, because of past experiences and I knew we were going to fade out sooner or later. But I always thought that I would see him first and then he’ll decide if he wanted to continue on communicating. And if he decides to continue communicating after he sees me, then I could truly get to know him as friends and nothing more then just friends. So, what did I do wrong?

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