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Romance and Emotional Attraction

Emotional attraction is about feeling a deep emotional connection with another person. In a romantic context, emotional attraction can be an equal or greater attraction than physical attraction. In an ideal situation, couples connect on several levels simultaneously and this contributes to a mutual love beyond comprehension. When couples are attracted physically, emotionally and intellectually, their relationship will most definitely intensify.

When a couple is emotionally attracted, there is a very powerful bond between them. The bond created through emotional attraction is very obvious to people outside of the relationship. The visible signs of emotional attraction include a certain look that the couple gives each other. Some people call this the look of love. It is a sort of passionate and focused gaze, which communicates an emotional message to each other. The emotion of love is shared in this type of attraction and speaks louder than words and maybe even louder than actions. The look of love is one that says it all.

Emotional attraction combined with physical attraction almost leaves a couple in a state of bliss so powerful that they are nearly intoxicated with love. Emotional attraction to the point of intoxication is not a common type of feeling. Feelings of love and emotional connection are almost too much to comprehend in such a situation. A mere touch of your partner’s hand in this case may be enough to make you feel weak with passion.

To be attracted emotionally means to be attracted to a person’s emotions in an innocent, yet passionate way. This type of attraction means that you are in love with the way a person feels and you deeply relate to them on this level. When they are sad, you are sad. When they are hurting you are hurting. When they are happy, so are you. It is almost like you mirror the emotions of the person who you attracted to. You actually share their emotions and this makes the two of you deeply connected in an almost spiritual way.

Romance does not always involve emotional attraction. Some people are just physically or intellectually attracted and this creates different sort of bonds between people. Oddly enough, a couple can be physically intimate, yet not connect on an emotional level at all. This can be a sad realization if one person is looking for that deeper emotional connected feeling while the other is content with only the connections of the physical side of things.

Finally, emotional attraction can be very sexy in a relationship context. For example, the intimacy of sensing and relating to the emotions of another person, as if they were your own creates a deep bond. When one person cries, the other consoles them, as if they themselves were crying. When one person laughs, the other laughs and shares in the same joy. Couples who are emotionally attracted enjoy a connection that not everyone can share. If you find yourself emotionally attracted to someone, chances are you will be attracted on other levels too. Be receptive to sharing the emotions of another person and you may be surprised just how attracted you will feel and to whom you feel this attraction towards.