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There are many differences between men and women, some subtle and some more noticeable. Body language is the big term these days and is one of the noticeable areas where the sexes can differ. But, unlike general body language analysis, there are specific parts of the body that can give specific clues as to what a man or woman is thinking.

Head posture or gestures can say a lot that words do not say. Men and women use their heads in different, though, similar ways, though. Have you watched a man and woman talk in a bar? What is going on with the woman’s head? The man is usually looking straight at her, even through her.

But, what do women do? If they are not interested in a man, they usually continue to look around the room. She may look down and to the side or even raise her head in a sort of arrogant pose. These are all signs of non-interest. If she is interested, she may initially look down but, usually, straight down, in a humble, “I’m yours”, sort of way. When she looks at the man, she will look him straight in the eye to see if she can detect his honesty. Once she is interested, she will probably tilt her head, as well. All these head movements are part of a language that we will explore in greater detail. They will give you cues to know exactly what a woman is think, and feeling.

So, we’ve said that the head can be tilted up or down. This can mean different things depending on context and inner dialogue. If a woman tilts her head down and looks to the side with rolling eyes, you know that she is not interested or has found your conversation a little too much. If she tilts her head down, however, and looks towards her feet or the front of her body, she is showing that she may submit this body and heart to you. Not right away, mind you. She may actually look down and then look back up into a man’s eyes. This is a good sign. Note, though, that if a woman tilts her head down and keeps her eyes glaring at you, she is probably feeling hostile. Watch out.

Now, what if she tilts her head upwards? If a woman tilts her head upwards at a high angle, she is either arrogant or feeling intimidated. If it is an arrogant gesture, she thinks that you are an idiot and wishes that you would go away. Now, if you’ve only just approached her, she may find you intimidating; try to relax her fears by showing her what a nice guy you are. Crack a joke or tell a friendly story - like the one when you helped the elderly lady across the street. If she tilts her head up, looks sideways, and smiles, you’ve probably said something that really amused her. Quickly think back to what it was and keep that theme alive. However, if she tilts her head back and squints, she thinks you’re a liar. Say something truthful really, really quickly.

So far, we’ve talked about head tilts up or down. Now, what does it mean to have a woman tilt her head to the side? This is a behavior that you’ll find more in women than men. Have you ever had a woman look deep into your eyes and tilt her head slightly? It can send shivers of joy down your spine.

So, how can we interpret head tilting to the side? Well, if a woman tilts her head to the side at a slight angle, she is showing her interest, and her sensitivity. If she tilts her head and pushes her face forward she is either trying to understand something you are saying or trying to kiss you. Either is a good sign you are not totally boring her. If she pulls her head back while tilting slightly, you may have said something to cause her to suspect that you are lying or stretching the truth. Or, she is developing a growing distrust. You should try and change that right away.

If she tilts her head at a medium angle (especially if she furls her brow), she is confused by something you are saying or doing. Try to find out what this is. If she pushes her face forward at this medium angle, she is really questioning you and practically calling you a liar. If she pushes her face back, she is really questioning your veracity.

Now, if she tilts her head at a large angle, she may be inviting you to get horizontal with her. She is showing you a large degree of her neck and exposing her skin for you to take in. If she smiles when she does this, pay both bills and take her away from the crowd.

Another head gesture to decipher is the head nod. The head nod is used in most cultures on earth to signify an affirmative or positive response to something that is being said or shown. Some scientists say that this is an innate behavior shown in many primates besides humans. If we apply this to understanding female head gestures, we know that if a woman is nodding, she is agreeing with everything we are saying, right? Well, maybe not. In fact, if she is nodding really fast, she may just be impatient with what you are saying. Speed and style is the key here.

If she nods by lowering her head first, she is nodding in caution. If she raises her head first, she is happily and optimistically agreeing with you. If she nods slowly and affirmatively, you have her undivided attention.

If you are engaged in conversation that is positive and you are getting the head shake (as in shaking one’s head No), she is probably disagreeing with you in her internal dialogue or is in a state of disbelief about what you are saying. Or, she just plain feels sorry for you! Always explore that response and try to provoke a positive, affirmative head nod, not a head shake.

And, if she jerks her head quickly to the side, she may be lying. Finally, there are two head gestures that, if you see, you are definitely in a woman’s good graces and field of interest. If she does a head toss, by throwing her head up and to the side so that her hair flies out of her face, she is most definitely interested in you. Also, if she is looking at you and does the infamous hair flip, ie. throwing her hair back, she wants to show you more of her face. This is also a very good sign.

Head gestures are an integral part of body language. Understanding how a woman uses these signs can help you not only tell if she is interested but allow you to maneuver correctly to end up taking her home and, maybe, to the church.

Men and women differ in many ways, many subtle and many much more noticeable. In their body language, men, while sharing some similarities, are quite different than women. And, head gestures, in particular, can tell a woman a lot about a man. Specific gestures or head posture can say a lot of things he doesn’t say with words.

Do you ever see a man tilt his head in the same way a woman does? Not usually. In fact, think about a man and a woman talking in a bar. A man will probably tend to stand centered and not move his head nearly as much as a woman. This is tied to an ancient and primitive need for a man to be strong and steadfast, showing his dominance to get a mate and food. So, a man will not move his head as much as a woman and that is the first thing that a woman needs to understand. Sometimes, a man may seem to be staring a hole in the back of your head. In fact, he may not be suffering from any condition; he may just be asserting stoic and very still manhood. This can still be uncomfortable for some women but shouldn’t be feared…in most cases.

For many men, though, direct eye contact is not something they prefer with women. They may periodically stare you down but men tend to converse with their head at an angle. So, if you find a man looking at you from an angle off center, that is normal.

Men don’t tend to look down, though, unless they lack confidence or are really shy. This might be a sign of weakness. In fact, studies show that women are attracted to the Alpha male confidence. So, most men always keep their head up and their gaze level. The only time that this may change is if you, as a woman, get into a man’s heart.

If a man does tilt his head down, especially after you’ve given him that special look, he is probably interested in you and doesn’t want to just stare at you, not yet anyway. You’ve probably seen this sort of exchange between a woman and a man. A man notices a woman and can’t help but look at her beauty. She looks over and sees him staring. Finding him interesting, she looks back to give him a good inspection. In that locking of the gazes, the man will sometimes look down, sometimes after a wry smile, because he is overcome by the woman’s beauty.

At times, man will tilt his head upwards, as well. If he tilts his head high, this may be a sign of arrogance. It can also mean that he is studying you as he is not sure what to make of you. Men are simple creatures and, when confronted with a complex, intriguing and beautiful woman, they may raise their heads as their brains go to work trying to analyze what they are observing.

Now, men do sometimes tilt their heads to the side. Sometimes, this is just a sign of confusion, trying to figure out the current situation. If the tilt angle is great and he is talking to a woman, he may be trying to imagine what it would be like to be lying down with this woman. So, if you are conversing with a man and he tilts his head and smiles, he is interested, very interested.

The head nod is another gesture to watch for in a man. In most cultures around the world, the head nod is used to signify a positive or affirmative response to what is being said. Scientists say that this is innate behavior in many primates, including humans. Thus, when a man is nodding, they are probably agreeing with us. But, this is not always the case. A nod can connote agreement. It could also be a sign of impatience. Men are not talkers and women are. If a man thinks you are talking too much, he may just continue to nod his head as you talk on and on. If you, as a woman, are talking at great length and the man you are conversing with is just nodding his head, you can rest assured that he may not even be listening to you. His mind could be on the Monday night football game.

The style of a head nod is important, too. If a man nods by lowering his head first, he may be nodding in caution. Sometimes, a man will do this on the first encounter with a woman. It is a cautious gesture of interest as he still has his primitive guard up. If a man raises his head and then nods, there’s a good chance he is more secure in his greeting or, in conversation, he is in happy agreement with what you are saying. If a man nods slowly and deliberately at you, he is probably not only attracted to what you are saying but attracted to you, as well.

Now, if you are in conversation with a man and you get a head shake (like shaking your head No), that is a sign of disagreement and their internal dialogue is one of disbelief in what you are saying. It is good to explore, think about what you were saying and what he would be disagreeing with. And, if a man jerks his head to one side quickly while he is talking to you, he may be lying.

Head gestures are a very important part of body language. Understanding how a man uses these signs can help you tell if he is interested in you and give you clues on how to best have your way with him, whatever that way may be.

Have you ever gone to a social gathering, shopping mall or got on public transit and observed how some couples interact. Sometimes you can’t help notice because certain pairs may be fighting and yelling at each other. But, sometimes, you’ll see a couple and just know from the way they are sitting or the way their bodies are aligned to each other that they are either totally happy or very mismatched. Now, looks are not everything and can sometimes be deceiving but the field of body language applies to couples as much as it applies to either sex individually. And, your observations may, in fact, be a true read of unconscious body language between the couples you’ve observed.

So, if we look at couples and their body language, what are some of the characteristics of the body during couple interactions?

If we start with the face, we can do a simple analysis and ask if the couple faces each other. Do they actually look at each other? Some couples appear happy but they do not actually look at each other. And, when they do, they become serious or even scowl. This is a sure sign that there is tension in paradise. Women almost always prefer eye contact so if they look away, there must be something there.

Another facial cue is to look to see if the couples raise their chins when they look at each other. This is a sign of animosity and exists when there is something the couple can’t communicate about and feelings are pent up inside.

And, if you see forced smiles, this can be a sign of some sort of conflict between the partners. When a couple has issues and tries to keep them hidden, they will smile at others but, when they look at each other, their faces will change from a smile to disgust and then back to a smile.

Another powerful indicator in the body language of couples is how they touch - or don’t touch. Whenever you see a couple that is in love, you tend to see them touching each other. You seldom see one partner touching the other partner and the other not responding with a similar touch, or more. If one of the partners reaches out to the other and gets no touch back, there is something wrong with their relationship. Many times, you’ll see a man reach for a woman and she will accept the touch; she won’t return it, however. Or, a woman may wrap herself around a man, trying to get his affection. The man will just look as if she is an appendage. These are signs of a relationship that is not ideal, even unbalanced.

Speaking of balance, body language can sometimes show who has the power. It is said that if a woman regularly puts her arm over the man’s shoulder, she has the power in the relationship.

And, when a man has his hand wrapped around the lower part of a woman’s back, there is a close sexual bond between them. However, if a woman tries to hold a man, or his arm, and he just lets his arm dangle, his is probably not interested in her or her feelings and needs.

Another example of body language between partners is the act of preening or straightening up a partner. If you see either partner always trying to straighten the hair of the other, fix up their clothes, remove blemishes, etc., this is a sign of closeness.

They say that clothes make a person. While this may or may not be true, there is a theory that says that if a couple wears contrasting clothes, they are not compatible or are intentionally dressing to clash with the other. Red, for instance, is the color of extroverts. White is worn by people who want to stand out. Black is worn by those who want to stay in the background (or hide their expending waist).

When a couple sits down together, the way they sit can tell you a lot about the state of their relationship. If they face each other, they are in a positive state; if they face away from each other or are at an angle, there is trouble between them. Also, if they each have closed body language towards each other, this can be a sign that something is wrong. Closed body language includes crossing of arms, keeping hands close, crossing legs and looking down or away.

And, when a couple is walking, does one partner walk ahead or behind? If so, there are some power or domination issues.

And, finally, though you may not observe this about a couple, the way they make love is a key indicator about their relationship. One body language to watch for in making love is whether the eyes of your partner are open or closed. Closed eyes can signify not wanting to look at a partner; of course, it can also just mean that the partner is enjoying her/himself. However, if they are stiff and awkward, there is probably something on that partner’s mind.

Body language is not just a man or woman thing. It also is a consideration when looking at any couple or even your own relationship. By understanding how couple-based body language works, we have a new insight on how romantic partnerships are held together - or torn apart.

Body language is a broad term for forms of communication using body movements or gestures commonly branded as “body attitudes” instead of, or in addition to, voice communications. In other words, what you can tell about someone’s mood or disposition can be intrepreteted from the expressions on ones face, the way they are standing or sitting, and other subtle gestures.

Often the mannerisms of men and women differ from each other so the advert mix signals when communicating without words - a little advice.

Body Language of Women

Have you ever been interested in a woman and tried to approach her? You think that she is showing signs that she is interested in you, too. You approach her thinking that your interpretation of her feelings are genuine. As you get closer, however, and go to introduce yourself, she frowns and turns away. You think, did I read her wrong? Chances are you did. And, you did because you are not adept at reading body language. In fact, most men are not. But, not to fear; this article will give you some pointers for your next encounter with the opposite sex.

Body language, sometimes called non-verbal communication, is actually responsible for over 60% of all our human communication. Words are only actually about 7%. And, since men and women communicate differently, you need to know specifically which gender you are trying to read. In fact, women have over three times more area of their brain devoted to reading these types of cues.

So, how do you read a woman’s body language. What indicators can you look for? Well, there are certain key elements to look for that can help you immensely when you want to know what a woman is really communicating, whether the conversation revolve around trust issues or you just want to know if he is flirting with you.

Believe it or not, women are more uptight than men. They are more “closed” in their demeanor. This is the byproduct of generations of conditioning and we can’t judge and say that their ways are wrong. They are just different from men’s.

Our culture raises girls to be more reticent and keep their body “closed”, so to speak. So, what does this mean in practice. Well, women tend to keep their arms close to their bodies. They almost always keep their legs crossed, as well. Even if their legs are not crossed, their knees are touching. Men are different. They take more space and have their legs seldom crossed. They are also loose with their arms. If a man sits on a couch next to a woman, usually, the man puts his arm around her and she, with her arms and legs close to her body, snuggles under the man’s arm.

So, how can this help men in reading a woman’s body language? Well, if you are conversing with a woman and she changes any one of these body cues, watch out. If her arms come away from her body or her legs move apart, she is probably going to be shifting her attitude. She is uncomfortable with something you said or did. Women tend to lean forward when they are conversing. If you are communicating with a women and she leans back, that’s also a sign that she is uncomfortable or getting angry.

When standing, women do not tend to lean as much as men. If they do, they also lean at a very small angle. If a woman leans, or leans at an exaggerated angle, something is changing in her. If she also folds her arms, you should think about what is causing her to change her outward attitude.

When it comes to romance and dating, body language can be critical in determining the success or failure of a date, or your relationship.

If we start with the face, you will notice that women tend to stay focused the face of a person who is talking, watching for emotional cues. So, it is important to stay focused on a woman’s face without seeming to be staring a hole through her.

And, if a woman is interested in you, her eyes will catch yours and she will look at you intensely for a few moments. She may raise her eyebrows but that is more a trait of men. So, when you get that intense and interested gaze, know that there is interest there. And, look for a woman who tries to show you more of her eyes. The whites of a woman’s eyes are something she considers sexy so if she inadvertently looks up and to one side, she is interested in you and exposing more of herself to you. Also, if she finds you interesting, she will move her eyes back and forth from one of your eyes to the other.

Hair is another intimate item that a woman considers sacred. If a women is interested in you, she will immediately think about her appearance; women are conditioned this way. The first thing that many women do, knowing that a man of interest is looking at them, is play with their hair. It may be a finger comb to straighten her hair or a twirling of the end of her hair. She may even flip a piece of her hair up revealing her ear or use her finger to force her hair on one side behind her ear. This opens up the face and allows a man to see more of her. When you see something like this, you definitely have her attention and interest.

Some women will toss their head to one side and throw their hair back. This is a sign that they are interested or looking for attention.

Women consider their skin to be an intimate part, as well. They only show skin on their body if they are interested, and comfortable. Have you ever gone to a restaurant with a female colleague and she takes off her jacket to reveal short sleeves. Then, she begins to talk to you with the palms of her hands and exposed wrists. Well, that is a good sign and you need to recognize what she is saying.

The hips are another area of female body language that is used to show interest in a man (or get attention). If a woman is walking to the bathroom or past your location and she is moving her hips with an exaggerated sway or in a sexy, powerful manner, she is sending a signal to which you must respond.

And, her legs are another powerful communication tool for non-verbal communication. Women tend to cross their legs when they sit. She will tend to turn her knees away from you, initially, because she is not wanting to be forward. But, if she turns her knees towards you, you have entered her intimate zone of trust, and possibly arousal, and you have a green light to pursue intimacy further.

Feet are another area of communication. When standing, if a woman points her feet towards, and even moves one towards you, she is attracted to you. If she is sitting cross-legged and begins to extend the toe of the leg on top towards you, she wants to be close to you. If she let’s her shoe dangle off her foot, that is a clear sign of a desire for intimacy.

So, for men who are trying to understand the body language of women, whether in general or in the realm of flirting, romance and relationships, use some of these guidelines as means to understand what a woman is really saying. She is saying more with her body than with her voice.

Body Language of Men

There are many differences between men and women. None, however, are more apparent, though, to both sexes, than communication differences. But, there are many different ways in which we communicate. Believe it or not, over 60% of all our communication is done, not through the mouth but, through the body. Body language is the most powerful part of our dialogue with others and the most critical factor in determining what others “hear” about what we are saying.

For women, men can be confusing creatures. They seem simple enough and their body language seems telltale. But, despite their seeming simplicity, men are sometimes hard to read.

There’s the story of a women who asks her husband, “Honey, you wouldn’t cheat on me, would you?” As the husband attempts to answer, she hopes to read his response, from his face to his stance. But, the husband does nothing out of the ordinary. He leans against the well at his usual angle, his face keeps its usual stoic look, his eyes look straight at hers and then down to the ground for a moment as he shakes head. He look up again at her and says, “Of course not, honey, you should know that.” She doesn’t know what to make of this seemingly normal behavior.

So, what should women read from a man’s body language? Well, there are certain key elements to look for that can help a woman know exactly what a man is really communicating, whether the conversation revolve around trust issues or you just want to know if he is flirting with you.

In general, men tend to be more relaxed than women. Because our culture still raises girls to believe that they should be reticent and keep their body closed, women tend to have their arms close to their bodies and their legs crossed. Men, on the other hand, will tend to sit with their legs open and their arms will frequently be draped over the back of a sofa or sticking out to the side. Men also tend to stand with their feet further apart and, when leaning, will lean at a larger angle. If any of this behavior changes, then you know that there is something going on in your man’s mind. He is telling you something with his body that you should be noticing.

And, when it comes to romance and dating, there are certain things that a woman should look for in a man that will help determine his interest or understanding of any messages you are sending.

Starting with the face, you may notice his eyebrows flash. This means that they will raise when his gaze meets yours. They may not stay there but that initial raising means that you have peaked his interest. If you do happen to talk or have a passing conversation, his eyebrows may raise up and stay there and his look may become one of awe or intrigue. He finds you not only very beautiful but very interesting.

His nostrils may flare, as well. This is usually a sign that he has been aroused by you and you are definitely appealing to him at some, or many, levels.

Many men will inadvertently look you over from head to toe (or at least head to breast). They may not mean to be overly sexual but your form may appeal to a man and he wants to “take in” your whole shape. Men love the womanliness of a woman’s body and this is a definite sign of interest. Of course, if his eyes scan your body like a sex-hungry fiend, you can rest assured he has only one thing on his mind. A quick, casual glance, however, is many times done only as a sign of admiration.

Men will also do other things with their bodies or their clothing. Sometimes referred to as preening, you may see a man smooth or mess up his hair as approach. He may straighten his tie, fix his collar or brush dust or lint of his clothes (even if there may be none there).

Have you ever gone into a bar or restaurant and met a man’s gaze? As you do, he reaches up and rubs his face or touches his chin. That is a definite sign of interest because that man is contemplating the feelings that have been aroused inside himself.

When sitting men tend to lean backwards. If a man begins to lean towards you and talk, he has left his comfort zone and is reaching out to you. If he spreads his legs or has them open quite wide, watch out, he is presenting you with all the goods and leaving it up to you to make a decision. He may even perch on the edge of his seat.

Some men will roll up their sleeves or put their hands on their hips when they are sending body messages to a woman. Certain women would find this appealing; some might not. But, is something to watch for.

And, if a man is playing with a cylindrical object such as a glass or a salt shaker, he is thinking about the roundness of the female body and is fantasizing about holding you or your body parts. It’s a good sign, though, that he is interested.

Finally, a man may use his hand to touch you during conversation. While this can be innocent, it is many times used by a man to judge a woman’s response to his touch. If you don’t seem to mind or even touch him back, he will try to get closer, guaranteed.

So, male body language is simpler than a woman’s but still not always easy to decipher. Using some of the guidelines here, you will now have a little more insight into what a man is trying to tell you with his non-verbal communication. Because body language is over 60% of all communication, understanding these cues will help you to understand men and, in couples, hopefully reduce any miscommunications that arise. While not an exact science, body language can unlock a completely new method of understanding men.

One of the major ways to improve communication is through better eye and face contact. If you do not appear interested or to be listening, communication will definitely not occur. This is true whether or not there is physical attraction.

In order to be more attractive to the opposite sex, you need to maintain good eye and facial contact. You need to look directly at the person when you speak to him or her. You need to smile, look at the person, and not shy away.

Look at the person’s eyes for a few moments, then look at their nose, their mouth, their chin, and then their entire face. All this should take just a few seconds. Then repeat the process. By doing this, you will appear as though you are genuinely listening to the other person. Your interest will show.

For instance, Jeremy was very attracted to Crystal, whom he met at a party. Yet, Jeremy panicked and became shy when he realized he was interested in her. During their conversation, instead of ooking directly at her, he looked down and off to the side, which made him appear as ifhe definitely was not interested in her. When Jeremy did manage to look at her, his head was cocked at an angle, which also gave the impression he didn’t really care about her.

On top of that, Jeremy appeared to be paying more attention to Crystal’s hands than to her face. In reality, Jeremy wasn’t even thinking about her hands. Yet, he was so uncomfortable and had such poor eye contact that he just zeroed in on her hands, which was a total turn-off to Crystal who quickly ended their acquaintance and walked away.

Lack of eye contact is a typically male trait that can be changed; what happened to Jeremy does not have to happen to you. Yet, communication should also go beyond the face and eyes, as the voice and body also convey rejection or acceptance.

If you really enjoy meeting people but tend to get nervous in social settings, there are a few things you can do to improve your situation. Above all, you must generate a positive attitude about it. If you think of socializing as stressful and difficult, others will sense that and be reluctant to approach you. Transmit confidence with positive body language and facial expressions. Stand up straight-don’t slouch. Make brief eye contact (not a blatant stare) instead of turning away or looking at the floor. If you get nervous, encourage contact and conversation by carrying a prop such as a book or magazine or an eye-catching accessory. Such an item will give others with common interests a reason to come over and talk to you.

Nervous people tend to sag their shoulders, lock their arms tightly around their bodies, stand rigidly, and stare at the ground or dart their eyes around. Confident people have an open stance, make eye contact, and lean toward the person they’re talking to. If close enough, they often show interest by lightly brushing your arm or shoulder to make a point.

Another way to be approachable, even if your heart is pounding with anxiety, is just to breathe deeply and smile. It’s hard to feel negative when there’s a smile on your face. The smile is a universal symbol of friendship and it draws people to you. Smile often and (as the old song says) the whole world will smile with you!

Body language can turn people away but it can also invites them to approach you. Some “do’s” and “don’ts”.

Don’ts:

• Lack of eye contact
• Continual throat-clearing
• Covering mouth with hands
• Tugging at clothes
• Jingling things in pockets
• Fidgeting with accessories or clothes
• Hand-wringing
• Frowning or grimacing
• Stepping backward or away

Do’s

• Steady eye contact
• Smiling
• Leaning toward a person
• Sitting on the edge of a chair
• Periodic hand-to-face gestures
• Moistening or licking lips
• Watching someone else’s mouth as he talks
• Arms at sides, as opposed to crossed
• Brief physical contact (nonsexual)
• Pointing arms, legs, or feet or all of the body toward a person

There are so many types of hugs that it is hard to know where to start in explaining their differences. So many variables affect the types of a hug that people give each other. For instance, people’s height, weight, age and their relationship, all determine the kinds of hugs that they give each other. Not to mention whether the huggers are men, women, friends or lovers!

First, there is the friendly hug. This type of hug usually happens between friends of either the opposite or the same sex. Family members also give each other these types of hugs. It is a caring, yet short embrace and may or may not involve a kiss on the cheek, depending on the situation and who the people are to each other. Generally, family member hugs include a kiss on the cheek but not always. If a younger person is hugging a senior relative or friend, the younger person often kisses the older person on the cheek. The kiss on the cheek is both a sign of respect and friendly caring or affection. The older people may also kiss the younger person on the cheek, or forehead. These types of hugs are usually done while standing or sitting down.

Next, we have the romantic hug, which is for lovers! This hug is a close and extended embrace that expresses love and passion for each other. It is almost always accompanied by kissing, which may also be very close and extended. The romantic hug is sexy and usually leads to even further intimacy and romance. This can be a hug that happens while standing up, sitting down or lying down together. The closer the better for romantic hugs!

We also have the hug that expresses that you have missed someone. This is like the friendly hug, but it usually last longer and may even involve the two people jumping up and down together or swinging each other around in circles. If you want to see examples of this kind of hugging, just go to the airport and observe people as they reunite in the arrival area. Much the same type of hugging will take place in the departure area in an airport. To hug someone before they leave on a trip or when they return from a trip, is very sentimental and makes a lasting impression on both people.

Another kind of hug is one that people give each other as a form of congratulations after an achievement. For example, when someone has a birthday or a graduation it is not uncommon to give them a hug for congratulations. Hugs are a warm and friendly way to express appreciation of another person. The embrace of another person expresses a certain feeling of union and caring. A hug can lift a person’s spirits and put a smile on their face. Be open to the joy of giving and receiving hugs as they serve as a meaningful form of human contact and expression.

Body language combined with effective verbal communication can be a powerful way to attract a person. If a man or women uses their body to sensually express their attraction, combined with saying the right things, a new relationship could evolve. One should never underestimate the sensual power of body language.

One of the most powerful forms of body language involves the eyes. They say that the eyes reveal a person’s soul, and this is very true. When you look into someone’s eyes, you see a glimpse of the spirit of a person. When two people look into each other’s eyes a certain spiritual energy is exchanged. Human eyes can say so much. A glance can sometimes say it all. If there is a strong attraction between two people, the eyes reveal this powerful message.

Sometimes it is just the way a person moves that can be attractive to a person. Maybe it is the way a person stands or the way they walk which is sexy. Often people have their own unique gestures that are luring. A certain laugh or a unique smile can be very sexy.

Everyone has a presence about them that makes them different from everyone else and it is this blend of gestures and mannerisms that make them who they are and makes them attractive to others.

People often express themselves with their hands when they are talking and this can make a strong impression on a person. Hand gestures combined with expressive tone in conversation can make a person very animated and interesting to other people. When hand gestures and conversations are combined with smiles and laughter, a person can become very attractive to others.

Fingers and Toes can be sexy too. If you are talking to someone and they are playing with their hair with their fingers, they are sensually saying that they are attracted. Ladies footwear that exposes the toes can be very attractive. There is something about seeing toes with a bright colored polish, which is often sexy to a man. Toe rings can be a sexy touch too. When a woman’s foot looks this way and she crosses her legs and moves her foot in a sensual way, it can often get a man’s full attention.

When dancing, people can use their body language very effectively as they move to the music in each other’s embrace. The gentle sway of the hips combined with the swishing of long hair and the sensual motion of arms, hands and feet can be very sexy. Sometimes the way a person holds their glass when they are drinking something is sensual. Also, watch how a person drinks something. A person’s lips are one of the sexiest parts of their body. Let all your senses awaken and be stimulated by the power of body language!

There are many romantic gestures that couples can do for each other to put some extra passion into their relationship. It is often the small things that mean the most when it comes to expression of love. You don’t have to spend a lot of money, just be creative and thoughtful!

First of all, compliments go a long way! Sometimes just to tell your loved one that they look good means so much. Everyone wants to feel attractive to the person that they are in a relationship with and a small compliment can go a long way in boosting self-esteem and security in the relationship.

Another thing that is well received in a relationship is hand written letters, cards and notes to your significant other. Personal gestures like these show your loved one that you love them enough to go the extra mile to express your affection to them in creative and personalized ways. The fun part of doing this sort of thing is that you get to hide or position these loving notes in creative places to get the attention of your partner. Perhaps you can stick a note in your partner’s lunch bag or pocket or even on their pillow. You might want to add the extra touch of passion and spray a fragrance on this letter, card or note. Scents are very passionate and suggestive and make a big impression on the person you love.

Pampering is also a very romantic thing to do for your loved one. For instance, surprise your partner some night after they get home from work. Have a special dinner made for them or order some food in. Set the table in a romantic way including a nice flower and some dinner candles. Decorate the bathroom with candles and have a hot bath ready, complete with bubble bath and soft music playing. Put rose petals on the floor, leading to the bedroom and into the bed. Burn scented oil, which will set the mood for romance such as jasmine or vanilla oil. Buy some colorful new towels to brighten up the bathroom. Sometimes a few new colorful additions can brighten up a room and make a big impression!

Another thing that makes a big impact is a decadent dessert. Maybe you can get a fancy cheesecake from a nearby bakery and enjoy a fancy dessert together in candlelight. If you are having a cheesecake or another fancy cake, cut a decent sized slice and put it in the center of a big plate. Decorate the dessert and plate with whip cream and chocolate or butterscotch sauce. Squeeze the sauce into creative swirls on the dessert plate. It will look outstanding and your partner will be so impressed. You may even want to make a couple specialty coffees to go with this dessert. Irish Cream or Kahlua make fine additions to a fresh coffee. Top the coffee with a bit of whip cream and a touch of cinnamon. Cinnamon will bring that extra touch of passion into the evening. Be creative and have fun and romance will fill the air!

How can you tell if someone is flirting with you? Body language says a lot when it comes to flirtation. Just watch a person’s eyes, lips, face, hands and legs to observe all the ways in which they are attracting the person that they like with their body gestures.

The most effective way to flirt is with the eyes. So much can be said by how someone looks at someone. Does a person stare or give a loving gaze and look away. A person’s eyes are windows to the soul and they can express so much without words. A person’s pupils even change depending on how interested they are in what they are looking at. For instance, a person’s pupils have been known to dilate if they are interested and contact if they are not. This is just something a person can observe if they want to assess someone’s interest in them.

Also, women often use their hair as a way to flirt with someone who they are interested in. If a woman wants to get the attention of someone they like, they will often play with their hair. Men fall for this too, as there is often nothing as sexy as a woman playing with her hair in front of him.

Face and mouth play a big part in flirting too. For example a warm, interested smile is usually very luring and attractive. People are drawn to sexy facial expressions. A person’s mouth is so expressive too, both by how it looks and what comes out of it.

Hands and arms can be sexy also when someone is flirting. If a certain part of a person’s arm is exposed, it conveys a feeling of openness. On the other hand, if a person’s arms are folded or crossed, they are making themselves unapproachable through their body language. If a person is close to another people who they are flirting with, they may want to casually touch that person throughout their conversation with them. Keep in mind that any light caresses express sexual desire. Men and women each have areas of their body, which are more sensual than others. A person needs to decide where they should touch another person in public so that they can flirt effectively yet discretely.

Legs are also very effectively used in flirting. If a woman crosses her legs for instance, this can be very sexy. Men on the other hand, should not cross their legs. If a man and woman are sitting close to each other without their legs crossed, this can appear very sexy and luring.

Finally, it is important to stay playful. For instance, a flirting woman may play with her jewelry while talking to a man. Sometimes she will play with her beverage or play with something on the table where she is sitting. Watch and observe body language, as it says it all!